The Languages of Love
I read an article called “The Languages of Love”. It said there are five ways to show and I’m going to tell you below: “Words of Affirmation”, “Quality Time”, “Receiving Gifts”, “Acts of Service” and “Physical Touch”. Instead of copying what it said, I prefer to share what I’ve summarized with you. The verbal compliments will inspire people and make them happy. Saying words such as “You’re beautiful” in the morning to people makes them have a wonderful mood at the beginning of a day.
Spending time with people you love and experiencing something together are extremely important. For example, being a good listener then you will make quality time when people you love are down.
Gifts are the commonest material to show love. However, a homemade gift is the best choice. Besides, a gift is an intermediary for shy people especially. Whether you are shy or not, first, you need to be a gift giver.
Helping actively shows you care about people you love. Guiding assignments for brother and sister, washing dishes for parents, solving problems for a co-worker are expression of love.
Shaking hands, hugging, kissing, and even giving a pat on the back are ways of love. Words can’t show physical touch. However, they are part of body languages. (Don’t deny it! Think the reason why kissing comes after “I love you” was told by lovers, for instance.) Body language is powerful.
The Language of Love suits many occasions. However, I can’t understand why it said “Buy flowers for someone for no reason” of the ways of “Receiving Gifts”? It must be some reason. I really don’t know why. Tell me if you know.
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